Tuesday 23 June 2015

Changes and Shifts in Rakhi Gifting Traditions

There are many traditions and customs associated with the festival of Rakshabandhan. People have maintained them for ages and they are still as relevant today. On the day of the festival sisters tie the rakhi on the wrists of their brothers as a symbol of binding them to an everlasting relationship.
Rakshabandhan translates from Sanskrit as “the tie or bond of protection, “and this is in significance of the custom for brothers taking a solemn vow to safeguard their sisters at all costs in return for the rakhis. Indian traditions also maintains if a woman ties a rakhi on the wrists of any male, he is obligated to treat her like his real sister and must also protect her from all harm. There are many examples from history which illustrates this glorious tradition. King Porus safeguarded Alexander the great in battlefield after Alexander’s wife Roxana tied a rakhi on his wrists. And the tale of the Mughal Emperor Humayun who rushed to help Rani Karnawati of Chittor after she sent a rakhi to him is another classic example.
But with the onset of time there have been some changes in the traditions of the festival. Traditionally it was only the brothers who presented rakhi return gifts to their sisters but these days sisters too buy gifts for Rakhi and present them to their brothers. The rakhi thread itself has also undergone changes. They were traditionally simple cotton or silk threads woven at home but now people buy fancy Rakhi threads in various designs which are readily available in the market. Although there have been slight changes in the traditions, the essence of sister and brother still stays the same for Rakshabandhan.

Tuesday 16 June 2015

Celebrating our Friends on Friendship Day

Friends are one of the most important things in our lives. They keep us happy and add meaning to our lives. They act as a positive influence and we can count on their support when things get tough. A good friend is someone who is there in every twist and turn of life. One might see them every day, once a year, or even less but one thing is for sure that they will always be there for us when the time comes. Our friends don’t care for our riches and material things; instead they love us for what we are.

Friendship is one of basic building blocks of a harmonious society. People have revered friendship from time immemorial. Many cultures from all over the world have stories and legends filled with wonderful tales of friendship. But even though friendship has always been revered, the tradition of celebrating a special day for friends and friendship is comparatively recent.

The idea of Friendship day celebration was originally promoted by Joyce Hall, the founder of Hallmark cards in 1930. Friendship Day is a worldwide occasion and International Friendship Day is celebrated on the first Sunday of August every year. People celebrate the occasion together with their friends. They also exchange Friendship day cards, flowers, wrist bands and other gifts. Friendship gifts are tokens of love and symbols of appreciation. A friendship gift on the occasion of Friendship day will go a long way in telling your friends how much they mean to you.